Friendship

Friendship happens when people make friends with another people. When someone comes to a certain unfamiliar place alone, he or she will feel isolated with the people surrounding, just like me when I first arrive in the college.

When I start to make friends with the others, I bumped into one of my secondary friend. I am not really close to her, but it is just fate that brought us together. I am not rejecting her, but the presence of this secondary schoolmate somehow will forbid me from making other new friends who is a total stranger to me. I believe this is not only my problem, but the others too.

When you bumped into someone you know earlier, you will start to stick with your friend all the time, especially those who are quiet, lonely and not really “talk-able”. Take my situation for instance; when I try to make new friends from the other states, I have to talk to them. Talk is the only way to know each other and also to make new friends. My friend however is that kind of quiet girl; she won’t interrupt and help herself to suit in our conversation. Therefore I felt sorry for her, as tough I left her aside or rejected her. So what should I do now? Continue my chatting or stop immediately to company her?

Thereinafter, I start to wonder, is it a good thing to meet with someone you know in a totally unfamiliar place or when you are alone? Or is it better to left out your friend that you know earlier and continue lead on to your new life without their presence? I know that this may sound sarcastic, but it is true. When you found someone you know in someplace you don’t know, you will start to stuck with your current friend rather than making new ones.

I don’t really know is this situation is happening to someone out there, but I just want to share with you all that, it is better to make new friends rather than sticking with your old mate which is what I am doing now. I just can’t help myself to let be alone, since she is my friend, as I considered.